What are the most common causes of conflict within loving relationships and how can we best resolve them?

By definition conflict is a discord of action or feeling; an antagonism or opposition of interest or principles; an incompatibility of idea or desire with another. The source of many surface conflicts can usually be traced back to unclear or inept types of communication, which can lead to misinterpretation and in turn can cause confusion and entanglement. Fortunately, these types of conflicts are easier to address, harmonize and avoid through exercising clear communication skills and practicing non-violent communication.

However, the deepest and most serious forms of conflict stem from our core fears. These core fears are the root cause of our inability to commit to truth, integrity, and higher values that require a certain internal level of coherency for which we need to let go of our fears in order to develop. Our fears hold us back from all that which love needs to be whole and real. They hold us back from revealing our most intimate selves for fear of rejection; it stops us from telling the truth for fear of judgment, it prevents us from being consistent between our thoughts and actions to create greater intimacy and integrity also as a consequence of fears which are deeply rooted in the ignorance of Self and the true nature of our reality. At the core level, one needs to escape the limiting confines of our pragmatic outlook on life and be willing to dive deeper into understanding our subtler reality to fully comprehend our true nature and finally liberate ourselves from the grip of a finite fear-based material reality and into a more holistic, integrative and fulfilling one.

Fierce Love!

Kaliyani ❤️

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